there are zillions of questions in my mind! there are millions of doubts which need to be clarified...they bother me..the thoughts smother me!
and am left with unanswered and unsolved theories ......
1) society? what is it? do we live for it or do we form it? are we just part of it?
when a woman is beaten by her husband...society doesnt bother....it may just create a hype for few hours or days and the story is back to normal...
when a man is struggling for job and having problems running in his family...society never helps him! he has to struggle and fight for his own existence and at the end...he is the winner or loser and the surroundings do play no role!
2) when i say that i want to adopt a baby and find another reason for my life...am asked not to...as i cant be accepted! my question is accepted by whom? people around me? those who never bother when i need a shoulder? those who have no clue about how i am living or struggled for my life? relatives, who don't even know my age and what i need in life? who are just interested in whom i have an affair with or how much property am i actually saving?
3) why cant we choose and live with a partner (if at all essential) on our own and go for it? why do we need to go for tailor made- horoscope matched persons and live with obligation! why cant marriage come after we live-know-understand each other and see how it is like rather than breaking a marriage? why are we always stopped from doing so saying that "you are not in US and it doesnt go well here" kind of statements?
4) why dont we have the choice to say yes to what we like and no to what we dont! why do we need to throw a fake smile and get upset in life?
5) why cant we create our own paths in whatever we like than actually settling for those dusted paths created by unknown travellers?
6) why dont people understand that there are still good people existing in this world and all are not buggers who just mess around with anyone they come across...
7) why cant we have individual choices and live with humanity than getting involved in others life for no use?
these are just some of many.....
and am left with unanswered and unsolved theories ......
1) society? what is it? do we live for it or do we form it? are we just part of it?
when a woman is beaten by her husband...society doesnt bother....it may just create a hype for few hours or days and the story is back to normal...
when a man is struggling for job and having problems running in his family...society never helps him! he has to struggle and fight for his own existence and at the end...he is the winner or loser and the surroundings do play no role!
2) when i say that i want to adopt a baby and find another reason for my life...am asked not to...as i cant be accepted! my question is accepted by whom? people around me? those who never bother when i need a shoulder? those who have no clue about how i am living or struggled for my life? relatives, who don't even know my age and what i need in life? who are just interested in whom i have an affair with or how much property am i actually saving?
3) why cant we choose and live with a partner (if at all essential) on our own and go for it? why do we need to go for tailor made- horoscope matched persons and live with obligation! why cant marriage come after we live-know-understand each other and see how it is like rather than breaking a marriage? why are we always stopped from doing so saying that "you are not in US and it doesnt go well here" kind of statements?
4) why dont we have the choice to say yes to what we like and no to what we dont! why do we need to throw a fake smile and get upset in life?
5) why cant we create our own paths in whatever we like than actually settling for those dusted paths created by unknown travellers?
6) why dont people understand that there are still good people existing in this world and all are not buggers who just mess around with anyone they come across...
7) why cant we have individual choices and live with humanity than getting involved in others life for no use?
these are just some of many.....
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What do you think should be a solution to it?
How do u think one should react in such situations?
What are the challenges which you foresee?
These are known as "sorry state of mind" questions. A successful person need not ever ever ever care about these. Well! that all I have to say.
If you truly want it you can get it your way. You only care about society as much as it does about you. If what you want really bothers someone they don't care about you that much. Break the shackles Swats. All those questions you have in your post will be answered when you start caring more about yourself and not the society around you.
You know how to put out your thoughts and captivate the readers..
If you really believe in your thoughts, you need not care for the society.. And if you care for the society, you might be doubting your thoughts.. Anyway, we can't always live our way. It's always a compromise..
very relevant questions for which i even dont have an answer or perhaps will not get an answer.
But as always said live ur life in your way. Nobady is gng to be with you except you.
From my earlier mail to you -
Those are questions some of us ask ourselves and of the society at times and in a few cases all the time. Most of us do find ourselves in that situation a little more often than we like to face them.
It all comes down to the way the system has been working for all these hundreds of years da... but a change will come cos nothing is constant. This system too shall change one day even if its not in our generation's lifetime.
Until then, all I can say to you is this... despite all the shortcomings of this system, there are some positives too. And like all things in life, we make the best of them and when we hit the rough patch, we should focus and get through it instead of letting it hold us down (I also know that its easier said than done, but we all have to try).
There is another reason why you are receiving this mail. I sincerely hope that these words, no matter how senseless they may seem (cos I dunno what just blabbered above), fill you with a sense of love and care that lets you know that there are still many friends who are interested in your happiness no matter what path you choose to follow in your life (does not include the wrong side of the law :P).
Dont let those bad thoughts dwell in your mind for long... Its a short life for all of us and lets try to make the most of it. Stay happy and pursue your dreams in career and social work.
Keep smiling dear :)
Wishing you the best in life as always...
Cheers,
hypocrsy my frnd is d name f d society v live in... al r willing n rdy 2 point fingers n talk shit n do nothin 2 help out odrs... yes gud ppl still exist but den again d gud is nvr noticed n d bad alwaz keeps surfacing, each single question u askd makes sense n answers 4 it ... well der r none... n if u like 2 blv den u hv 1 simple ans 4 all f dem... HELL wid d world n society n live ur life freely.. yes ppl wont let u b .. but still u gota go on n live it 2d fullest... wich i smhw blv u do... ur post temme ur 1f dos who dnt care much n do wot u feel rite... so keep goin n ROCK ON,,,,
From ages people are tryimg to find out the answers, when they give up for not getting the answers to who the society is? what role does it have on us? etc.etc, they either go with the wind calmly, or they go against all the social stigma, and finally become revolutionaries. All great achievers did work differently from the mass, there were people to criticize, but they didn't bother and finally they left the world happily because they listened to their heart instead of the society.So the decission is upyo you, either go with the wind or against it.
Hi Dear.. Iam having many things to tell U but may be my poor ability to express itwill ristrict me to express them here....
First of all If U say the society is not worried and concerned about U.. then why you should be???
and if U r not worrying about the society.. why U have all these questions?? Just do nto worry about the society and live your own life..
But yes.. while doing that you need to get somebody who is also like minded who do not care about society.. and wants to live a free life.. free from questions...
U have so many questions that means U have fear of getting thrown away from society... Society is one who will not allow U to walk on the road also and sit on your horse also....
so...
Just forget about it.. forget about all questions and do nto worry about what answers they may have .. just live your lofe honestly....
Society will not bother if U r unhappy but bother if U r happy..
In short "Life mein Tention leneka nahi .. deneka .. kya??? "
Just remember one golden line said by some body.. " Life Laughs at U when U R Unhappy.... Life Smiles at U when U R Happy.... Life Salutes U when U make others Happy!!! "
So?? I am not sure I am able to say what alll I wanted to say.. may be some day we can discuss it personally.. :-)
A single answer to zillion questions.Society is moulded by you. You should not allow yourself being moulded by society.Don`t follow rules .Follow the exceptions. Ignore those who don`t offer a shouder.Choose your partner . Don`t ask others to choose someone for you. Expressing yourself is your birth right. You do not need someone`s permission for it.You show a path and others will follow you. Leadership should be your trait .
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