Getting remarried

Renu Desai is engaged. 

For those who don’t know who she is, the news sounds like a regular statement of some woman getting married. 

For those who are close to her (her immediate family, friends, well wishers), she is looking at a new start, rather a restart with a happily ever after story. 

For people like me, a very happy news and a welcome change for someone of her standards who has seen it all. I am one of those women who fall into her category, aka bold, beautiful, smart, positive towards life, socially aware and yet mind our own business. 

For Pawan Kalyan fans- wait we have to divide them here. For many it’s a happy news that she’s considering a new start. But for some, she’s committing an unforgivable crime that has no victims and no repercussions. 

You see, I have a problem with this small section of people who are like that one drop of extremely dangerous poison that can kill the hope of entire society. 

Now, for those who don’t know who Renu Desai is, she’s a beautiful actress, talented director, a daring mom and just a regular woman who has a heart of a child. She’s also known as ex wife of Tollywood actor Pawan Kalyan. That’s where the entire issue haunts her. 

I follow her on Instagram and no, I don’t kfnow her in person and neither does she know I exist. But what bothers me is, for couple of days she’s posting status updates of people who are trolling/abusing/dissing her for getting engaged. Wait, isn’t her ex already married with 2 kids from the third wife? You see, Renu (I am taking the liberty to call her Renu) is still expected by these morons to stay single and never to be married. What is the valid reason?  In fact there’s none. It is what the society wants,  especially the moronic fans. 

The problem here is not her ex husband, neither is her fiancé. I am sure PK will be very happy and we need not be surprised even if he comes along to wish Renu and her fiance. You see, the problem is his certain section of fans who can’t tolerate the idea of a woman with kids getting remarried. These fans would have never spoken to their idol, but assume, expect and dictate the life of a woman who is remotely not related to them. This mentality largely exists towards many single women with kids. Our society just can’t accept that women, also need some TLC just like others and single moms are no exception. We need to change the way we look at others. We need to change the way we assume others to be. We need to change the way we want others to be. 

For last couple of days, Renu is fighting with the trolls. But it’s her profile and she has every right to allow who visits it. I feel she’s too nice to be true and to kind to exist. All she’s doing in her life  is, getting married. 

Let us all wish her a happy life ahead. Oh by the way, what she does with her life is purely her choice. 

God bless you Renu.