Monday, October 19, 2009

love ke baare mein!



when every tom, dick, harry, rita, meeta and ....can speak about love...why cant I? so I am giving it a try...whats love?


1) for me there is nothing called true love or false love..there is only love...

2) i love many people in this world...but i am not in love with any

3) i love many things too...you see..sort of non-living love

4) i believe once i am in love.....i will never leave him till my death..but to fall in love is a big thing for me..

5) one would be faking if he/she says "pyar sirf ek hi baar hota hai.." naa....we love and also fall in love with more than 2-3 people in life time...its just that we dont tend to express or be with them for life time...

6) its not necessary that we love the one we get married to...every married couple is not a pair of soulmates...

7) its not necessary that we give our love an ultimate destination called marriage....we can still be in love and not get married...bonding keeps us close irrespective of the distance we live...

8) once the love is mutual...no matter what..it never dies...its eternal...but birth of such love is rare..

9) love at first sight does happen....but its legitimacy is a question!

10) sometimes we fall in love in first instance...sometimes we never fall in love -even if we are together and live close for decades

11) for those who are in love...they can understand the difference between lovemaking and having sex...

12) there is never a breakup in love...we just tend to get apart..yet we are deeply connected to each other and the bonding lives forever..

13) love happens to anyone irrespective of age, sex (yes it happens for some people..and we have to respect them!), financial status, caste, creed, complexion and all....

14) love means no business...its a spiritual and eternal connection which comes without pros and cons...

15) love never happens to those who are highly infatuated, as they feel its love each time they come across a man/woman

16) when we love ourself...we can/and are authorised to love others

17) love means no hatred and there are no killings/attacks/abuses....you dont tend to hurt your lover in any-which way!

18) there is no room for dislike and non-compromise in love...it happens when you want to do business..not love..

19) you can have multiple partners..yet love only one person....(this applies to some....no debate over this issue..any sensible person can understand what i mean)

20) love cant be explained..it can only be experienced...

i think i gave enough gyaan on love....i mean every word...and this is what i think...




12 comments:

Anya said...

%pyar sirf ek baar hota hai%

Renoooooo was, is and will be..

:)

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9) Love at first sight happens only if the other person is sexy
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11) the act of sexual intercourse is an act in which man and woman have sex/make love

Lovemaking and having sex are just trendy terms that involve different proportions of foreplay and emotional fluctuations
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19) multiple partner concept sounds kinky..

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20 ) love can never be explained? what are the previous 19 points for?

Chriz
CFO
www.chronicwriter.com

sobhit said...

bingo... well said

:) said...

lovely 'fact file' of love. all are valid points. like it....

Arpita said...

oh god i never saw the same person speaking so many different defination of love.

I.J.SWAMY said...

True love is when girls jump from cell towers or into wells.True love is modified by high Oestrogen production.Other variety of LOVE -Graded on a love meter 0 to 10 , God`s love is 10. Mother`s love is 9 , wife`s love is 8 ,siblings` love is 7 ,friends` love is 6 ,peers` love is 5, subordinates` love is 4 , bosses` love is 3,business man/woman`s love is 2,customers` love is 1 and politicians love is 0.Father`s love is equal to a business man/woman

chaitanya said...

@ arpita : when someone is confused to the core and doesnt know what exactly they want ,this is what will be the outcome,so nothing new in it,lets get used to it.

chaits

I.J.SWAMY said...

Love meter grades love from 0 to 10God`s love 10 ,mother`s love 9 ,siblings` love 8 ,friends` love 7 , fathers love 6 ,peer`s love 5,boss` love 4 ,huband/wife`s love 3 ,subordinates` love 2 ,business/customer`s love 1 , politician`s love 0 .

Ramana KV said...

Hmm.. Maa friend kooda antundevaadu.. 'Jeevitham lo okkasaaraina premalo padaali.. Premalo padithe kaani aa anubhoothi emito theliyadhu.. Ala kaani jeevitham vyardham' ani...

Lots of thoughts..

Harini krishna said...

wow..very very analysed n written..nice post swats...

oRange* said...

i agree!
'pyar sirf ek hi baar hota hain' is a shit dialogue, seriously!

and i also think that 'love' is highly misinterpreted by many.

Anonymous said...

"Love is the Seventh sense which destroy all six senses"

Rohit Dassani said...

Nice post!!
Should become a part of Yahoo Answers for 'What is love?'