I was lazying in a seminar session while Ms M threw this paper infront of me and was a bit irritated. I dint understand what it was and took it and saw a big photo of a girl who was naked and a write up on her....its been more than 6 months now..and i still read this piece.... go through it
http://www.bangaloremirror.com/index.aspx?page=article§id=1&contentid=2008072920080729145743750f65890e0§xslt
ok to start with....i love the article....ofcourse not for the way it was written but i can clearly see the attitude of Anjali who is very clear in what she wants in life. unlike many hypocrites and those in the veil of traditions and cultures, anjali surely made a niche in her personal and professional life.
i felt, i am no one infront of this woman who is as genuine as a crystal clear mirror without any faking attitude. purity is what we need in life....no point in watching porn secretly or throwing tantrums on opposite sex and faking to be clean....i compare them with a clean and tidy comode which inherently is dirty but looks clean for while....
i always wanted to know why sex workers are into the field...they r also women, they have emotions, they need a family and they need a supporting shoulder....to quench my thirst, i met this eunuch on necklace road one sunday evening....let me tell u...necklace road is a famous hangout zone in hyderabad near hussain sagar and one can find varieties of lives in every 3 feet distance...this eunuch bumped on to me seeking alms and i asked her to give me her phone number...she was taken aback and put a puzzled face....i assured her that i am harmless and i just want to talk to them....apparently she refused to give me the number and asked me to come to their place anytime...i accepted the invite.
i still dont know why i am writing this blog...but somehow i remembered anjali today and googled for her article and am penning it down here...may be i just want to say that we shouldnot judge people by what we look at them..its better to talk to them and conclude..(anyways we dont have anyrights to conclude about anyone)
lets respect each other!!!!!!
http://www.bangaloremirror.com/index.aspx?page=article§id=1&contentid=2008072920080729145743750f65890e0§xslt
ok to start with....i love the article....ofcourse not for the way it was written but i can clearly see the attitude of Anjali who is very clear in what she wants in life. unlike many hypocrites and those in the veil of traditions and cultures, anjali surely made a niche in her personal and professional life.
i felt, i am no one infront of this woman who is as genuine as a crystal clear mirror without any faking attitude. purity is what we need in life....no point in watching porn secretly or throwing tantrums on opposite sex and faking to be clean....i compare them with a clean and tidy comode which inherently is dirty but looks clean for while....
i always wanted to know why sex workers are into the field...they r also women, they have emotions, they need a family and they need a supporting shoulder....to quench my thirst, i met this eunuch on necklace road one sunday evening....let me tell u...necklace road is a famous hangout zone in hyderabad near hussain sagar and one can find varieties of lives in every 3 feet distance...this eunuch bumped on to me seeking alms and i asked her to give me her phone number...she was taken aback and put a puzzled face....i assured her that i am harmless and i just want to talk to them....apparently she refused to give me the number and asked me to come to their place anytime...i accepted the invite.
i still dont know why i am writing this blog...but somehow i remembered anjali today and googled for her article and am penning it down here...may be i just want to say that we shouldnot judge people by what we look at them..its better to talk to them and conclude..(anyways we dont have anyrights to conclude about anyone)
lets respect each other!!!!!!
10 comments:
Point well made... and I concur.
I shall read Anjali's article when I get home...
respect & peace...
have a nice evening da... cheers...
I strongly feel, if given a choice, the sex workers will certainly do another job for a nicer pay. I see these prostitutes in Hong Kong. There are loads of them from Thailand, Philippines and Indonesia.
The saying goes in Philippines like this : If you go to Hong Kong, you have two choices : 1. work as a maid 2. work as a prostitute and earn in 2 years what you will earn in 12 years.
But at the same, these guys who criticize the sex workers are the ones who stand up in a queue out there...why not point fingers towards MEN ?
Agreed. Thanks for the article... Showed an quite an unknown side.
i read her article.. she has her judgemental right and view about the way she lives.. she took it the easy way. she could have used her head..
anyways am no saint or judge to judge her... everyone has their right to live the way they want.. atleast she is not hurting anyone.. she is just living her life..
i have seen a whale a lot of hookers in beijing.. they just walk into you and ask: sir do you need a massage".. given a chance they would choose a better job.. but they chose this one.. some questions in life never has an answer
i read the link of what anjali had to say, i respect her guts and for what she said, that she is professional in having sex, but did not love any one. Waw i liked that attitude.
Read the interview of Anjali. She has gone in to this industry with her choice, what abt the girls who were forced?...I swear really i didn't understand this till doday...but very nice interview swats...thanks for ur link.
@ Arv- thanks for sparing time Arv- i always cherish your comments :) keep posting
@ prash- exactly prash- infact, i want to bring them out of the flesh trade and give them a free life...i hope i would do it one day :)
@CM Chap- shall post more and more in the future :) keep reading
@ chriz- true chriz, we are no one to judge...:)
@ arpita- thanks for the comments, infact every life has a right to live and we should respect the way people are!!
@ Nawaz- true nawaz, many women are forced into this trade!!!
Deep inside Anjali , she wants to CRY and wants to shed an ocean of tears. She is not crying because she has not opened up her subconscious mind. She needs alcohol to do it.
Anjali`s "action" and "only just action without love" is a serious flaw. Can she and will she "act" with her father or brother ? Or will she "act" with her son whom she can beget without marriage.
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