the perfect reason

its not you don't love me....its that you simply can't...

its your loss !!!!

not an easy job!!!

I was lazying in a seminar session while Ms M threw this paper infront of me and was a bit irritated. I dint understand what it was and took it and saw a big photo of a girl who was naked and a write up on her....its been more than 6 months now..and i still read this piece.... go through it
http://www.bangaloremirror.com/index.aspx?page=article&sectid=1&contentid=2008072920080729145743750f65890e0&sectxslt


ok to start with....i love the article....ofcourse not for the way it was written but i can clearly see the attitude of Anjali who is very clear in what she wants in life. unlike many hypocrites and those in the veil of traditions and cultures, anjali surely made a niche in her personal and professional life.
i felt, i am no one infront of this woman who is as genuine as a crystal clear mirror without any faking attitude. purity is what we need in life....no point in watching porn secretly or throwing tantrums on opposite sex and faking to be clean....i compare them with a clean and tidy comode which inherently is dirty but looks clean for while....

i always wanted to know why sex workers are into the field...they r also women, they have emotions, they need a family and they need a supporting shoulder....to quench my thirst, i met this eunuch on necklace road one sunday evening....let me tell u...necklace road is a famous hangout zone in hyderabad near hussain sagar and one can find varieties of lives in every 3 feet distance...this eunuch bumped on to me seeking alms and i asked her to give me her phone number...she was taken aback and put a puzzled face....i assured her that i am harmless and i just want to talk to them....apparently she refused to give me the number and asked me to come to their place anytime...i accepted the invite.

i still dont know why i am writing this blog...but somehow i remembered anjali today and googled for her article and am penning it down here...may be i just want to say that we shouldnot judge people by what we look at them..its better to talk to them and conclude..(anyways we dont have anyrights to conclude about anyone)

lets respect each other!!!!!!

sikkim- virtual tour

I have been to sikkim some 8 yrs ago and have fond memories of the place. It was our last family tour (apparently we became busy after that) and i still relive those memories whenever i see the pics. recently rahul, my batchmate at IIFM, told me that he was in sikkim. so i asked him about the place and he had many things to say...so i suggested him to write something about the place so that i can put it in my blog.....u can also check rahul's blog at http://www.roby2kin.blogspot.com/

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To start with the food habit of the people of Sikkim I must start with one things :- Sikkim is a very cold place situated in the foothills of Himalayas. People here mostly prefer Hot drinks and mostly love to drinks alcohol (either home made/ those availables in shops). As there is no tax on alcohols here the cost is way too less which motivates people to consume more of it and the cold adds up to the reason. The side dish that goes parallel with alcohol is Momos ( dumplings) Whether its chicken dumplings or mutton or pork dumplings or beef dumplings its kind of national food /snacks for the people of sikkim. I personally tasted all variety and loved it. People who really eat dumplings in morning as break fast or lunch or afternoon snacks. No one really needs a reason to eat these and each and every local food joint or resturant serves dumplings. Another stuff that really comes as a compliment with the dumpling is a chilli sauce which is locally made. You find these sauce every where though it compliments the dumplings in a great way but people here also uses these chilly sauces with various other food and even with chapatis :) There is a local drink alcohole which is made from fermented rice in house holds. People usually enjoy this drink in any of these local fuctions or household functions. Though I heard this one is really strong and nasty :) People here have more or less liking to chinese foods and chowmin is one of their fav...actually no one here like to have hakka noodles and most of them like to take grave noodles with pork, beef or mutton.. Chicken is least in the priority of the non veg food and pork is quite cheap in this place....The chilli pork is one of the most popular snacks which goes complimentarily with drinks. Though all these are quite natural but people here have a weird habit of eating dried monkey meat when they have malaria. Its a common belif that eating dried monkey meat in thier soups will help the body to recover in malaria....weird but i donno if it really works or not..... Though for someone who is comming to sikkim he or she must tastes the dumpplings and the chilli pork and if one dosenot have any problem in drinking then go ahead and booze as much as you can coz its really cheap here

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so how about a tour to this heavenly place???????

am confused

today is international women's day...
i am 26 something and i feel i am now "a woman" and no more a girl...i have been going through many tides...lows and ups....life has been a huge roller coster ride for me...if i have seen the toughest days in my life...i have also seen success in many ways...so i believe in accepting the life as it comes to me....sometimes i am pissed off...sometimes i am thankful...am atlast confused....am now in a stage of life where i dont know what i want ....many factors are effecting me...from relationships to matters of hearts....from extra-marital affairs to economic factors..life has become turbulent...i understood that life of a woman is as chaotic as that of a man....well onething that i learnt is that to be strong and dynamic....

and now since morning....i have been receiving calls of HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY!!!!
huh i dont like to be wished....i believe in equal rights and say that if there is a women's day there should be a men's day as well...i might sound strange but i mean it....
yes, we do still live in a male dominant society but for me its an individual thing to prove oneself...if we have the talent and substance in us, no force can stop us.
many men take me as a feminist as i sound strong in my opinions..yes i am strong enough to be defeated and i can challenge male ego....but i dont do this with everyone.
for me sexual harrasments at work place, domestic abuses, eve teasings etc are nothing but the results of being weak...if a woman is strong and is self defensive...no one can harm her....

hey hang on...i know am sounding a bit philo....well there is another side of the story as well...
no one wants a strong gf...huh...sad me....all alone...i look ok ok types and no idea why men run away from me....may be i give them an assumption that i am too rude or whatever...off-late my mom is asking me to be a bit soft and inclusive...huh....

am a bit confused in life now....

a bit delayed

oops my fellow bloggers!!!!..sorry for not posting all these days....should i tell u the reason?
well....my life has become hectic with loads of work ....lot of traveling....and above all...some deadlines...at the end of the day when i felt i am relieved of all my tensions...my lappy died an instant death and now i gotta give it a new birth or do the funerals for it...my mobile phone also died without any notice and i have been roaming around the service center like a loanwala...and yesterday my new iron box also died...gawddddddddddd......sigh
wish me good luck....am also going through some blues...not exactly like those-heart -broken ones...but somewhat similar...lol
but i bet...i shall spring back soon....
swats can never be gloomy ..........lol lol...