I wrote this as I got furiously frustrated after seeing my friends crying their hearts -out. Hence I thought of writing something on men who seriously screwed their lives and thus this piece was born. After writing this I received many calls from my friends asking me to delete the post as they felt I am turning into some despo female. Oh no! i am not- not at all. I would never delete any of my writings as I write my mind. Enjoy this and let me know if you have some comments. No point in getting offended :) - chill buddies :)
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yes...i know you will screw me after reading the title and the content. but this is a universal fact. at the end of the day....all men want sex...i love this quote- "Indian men are like mice- always searching for holes". I know how true this is....i wanted to write this blog long back but thought ...no point in writing by generalising my individual perception. but recent conversations with some of my buddies triggered my thought and i am penning it down.
recently one of my friends had a break up and the basis for it is...s--, which they fondly call it love making. i dont understand the difference????? the girl was quite resistant and the boy couldnot help it out but call it quits...wow...can anyone see the intensity of love in this affair???? ahhh...
another friend of mine found her new love and she has all the happiness in this world. she wanted to marry him and vice-versa. she is all gearded up for the wedding prep when suddenly this guy popped up with a not-so-interesting proposal- s-- before marriage! he wants to check the compatibility on bed???? comon give me some space to take breath...what the hell is this? why you call it love?
some men just want it and they can go to any extent..impress u...flatter u....say u r the most beautiful one (i know they will forget aishwarya and anjelina for sometime)....u r an angel (genetically??) u r a darling...god's gift...the most precious...and whatever...despite knowing the fact that she is none of them....
and i believe girls r big fools...they instantly become paros and lailas once the devdas and majnus utter these words. whatever man...atleaat in my life...i haven't come across one single man who is genuine by heart and loves someone....everyman at the end of the day wants just s-- and nothing else...
GROW UP!!!
I bet on my blog...
26 comments:
Yes you are right all men want sex and i bet on your blog even woman want it much more than what men do...how old are u now ? u havent seen anyone who is a sincere lover...btw r u single or married? If single i guess u might not have seen or realised someones love for you who must have had as genuine feelings for you as u have for yourself or u might have been rude to someone (as most girls tend to be ,before obliging to a dirty assole---like what u said in your blog a sex maniac)
and if you are married ....
my advice take some time to understand your hubby.Indian husbands are very loving and caring .
coming to the examples you quoted of your friends .....i am 36 years old and i feel there is a generation gap that has come and these young people are getting carried away by the western culture and english movies,midnight parties,boozing and stuff but the true essence of life is in the INDIAN culture.Hope atleast some understand it. Mera Bharat Mahaan.
sorry if i bored u people here.
Hi Swathi,
You will not believe, how many times i read this page specially this one and one night stand, i forwarded the link to as many frnds as possible. People who dint know you asked me to appreciate you, i got response from men community too.
Hi
won't you agree you're generalising very complicated issues ?! And doing it just so easily.
Just a friendly comment... after reading YOU.I mean your Blog
Regardz
You either lost your sensibility or senses in this post. "everyman at the end of the day wants just sex and nothing else... " ---that's pure B.S.
You mean to say you never met a man who loves a woman wholeheartedly?
Haven't you come across any women who cheated on their husbands??
Hi Swathi,
U again commented on Indain men.
I totally disagree with your comments..
Please Understand that, Sex is a universal phenomenon.. It has got nothing to do with region, gender or race.
Imagine the situation what would have hppened if ur friend's hubby is resistant to sex and ur friend wants it, I would bet that, the result would be same..
As far as sex and love are concerned, they are not totally independent. Sex definetly helps to increase the love and respect btwn 2 partners..
By the way, Sex is not a bad thing.. As far as the 2 parties are loyal to each other.
@ Praveen- thank u very much for the comment sir. No sir, I havent seen anyone who Kept their love for a girl. Hope I will come across one soon. Keep posting :)
@ Arpita- Thanks for the comments sweety. Keep reading. love ya
@Somal- I feel bad when I generalise things. I know I shoudnot do it. But cant help when your sample turns out to be like this. What to do? :(
@ Kishan- Hey you are cent percent right. I have even seen women who have cheated upon their spouses. May be I should write a blog on them next time. thanks for enlightening me. :)
@ sravan- Hey am not writing about sexual intentions of humans. I am talkign about a relationship here. Keep posting :)
"everyman..at the end of the day just needs s.."
and as u said,this is a universal fact. I dont know why u get this thought and ......
thinking only with the opinion of a friend is quite not correct thats what i feel and...
I wish you chooze a different target within next 4 years.ANd I bet you'd have a berth in the Indian Shooting Team at the London Olympix.
haha
@ignited minds- Hey thanks for your comment. Yeah see...you got my point. Keep posting :)
@ Chandu- Hmm...thats my opinion chandu. It can be right or wrong and you have all the right to deny my thoughts. Thanks for the post. Keep posting :)
@ Somal- Now thats flattering..lol..
This reminds me of something my high school English/Semantics teacher said: "You could be making love to someone and they're just f-cking you." Or vice versa. I don't think it's always just the guys.
However, I did meet and Indian journalist turned banker, who I affectionately refer to as tentacle-man. You see, from the second we met, he kept trying to touch me, pushing me to kiss him and expecting me to go home with him. Even when I told him that it wasn't going to happen and to keep his paws off me, he thought persistence would work. Umm, no!
I was totally turned off dating again, wondering if I had been out of the market too long and this is what dating has become. What happened to courting? Is there romance anymore? I'd rather stay happy and single than have to settle for a guy like that who can't even give me the respect I deserve.
No new posts on a species called MEN is here...
but yeah I can feel the distant drums sending vibratory ripples in my coffee Mug
Something's on way
Ha ha
What does a channel do for TRPS......it shows what sells in the market and sex sells .......its nothing different out here in the blogs world also.......no wonder i see so many replies and views in your blog swathi.
Its very very hard for us to accept the truth in our lives. I as a 28 year guy, still remained virgin, reason , i donot want to loose it because it make me feel confident in myself. Yes, i do cry for sex sometimes but i control it by my own will. I feel the pain of being single and enjoy it too.
Further, i would say that these days , we all men are becoming slaves of our habbits. We are polygamous by nature and love to have multiple relationship. Even if, we have a girl with us, most of us think about the one next door, in office or even friends. I have also seen we some of us doing unsocial activities with kids, office mates and even with same sex. I would rather vomit if i talk to much but its a hard fact that we are more like a DOG. Destroying our own selves by hiding our frustration in one hole. Aren't we becoming the slaves of just one little stick?????
Delete my content if you think its inappropriate.
Women doesn't like to treat them as meat and Men doesn't like to treat them as wallets but What happens out there with many ....u know.. Generalization is an easy one to do .Living with hope is the hard to do because it needs patience and persistence.I pity your cynicism.Grow Up...!!
CONGRATULATIONS SWATI !!
U brought this article & u din delete it dat is also very much appreciable.
Ya dats very true dat every man needs a hole. Well reason may be anything. whether scientific or something else.
But whose fault? Girls are not fool swati. they r emotional creatures & not very much practical. The reason behind it is the environment in which they brought up. Parents saying, don allow to move out and on the other side males looking whole world. Thats why very easily dey make gils fool.
I hv seen lots of girls crying. first dey r not ready for any relation but boy convinced dem n in da last dey realized dat girl is not right for them. she cant make him happy n get an another girl n day don hv dat much courage to say this thing to their ex-gf. Lots of things. JITNA LIKHA JAYE UTNA KAM HAI.
N this is not only for unmarried males even married males do da same thing.
n not only Indians every men is like this.
Now da wotever may be reason solution must be there. n i hope u wil c in dis matter.
n i hope very soon u will write on martial rape too. n dowry cases too.
ALL DA BEST!!
@ anonymous- Yeah I understand that. Being a woman i can empathise with the issue. Keep posting
@somal- Hey really? lol
@j3m- do u think I am writing such blogs to sensationalise? wow....even in the wildest imaginations- i can never do that. I speak what I like unless untill it doesnt hurt others and at the same time i hate to be a people pleaser.
@ignisted minds- u almost wrote a blog. y dont u upload it? it makes sense. believe me
@mano- i told in my blogs earlier that when sample turns out to be like that, we cant help it out.
@abc- Hey thanks for the comments- I shall definitely do some research and write on the issues that u have mentioned. Keep posting.
@ anonymous- Yeah I understand that. Being a woman i can empathise with the issue. Keep posting
@somal- Hey really? lol
@j3m- do u think I am writing such blogs to sensationalise? wow....even in the wildest imaginations- i can never do that. I speak what I like unless untill it doesnt hurt others and at the same time i hate to be a people pleaser.
@ignisted minds- u almost wrote a blog. y dont u upload it? it makes sense. believe me
@mano- i told in my blogs earlier that when sample turns out to be like that, we cant help it out.
@abc- Hey thanks for the comments- I shall definitely do some research and write on the issues that u have mentioned. Keep posting.
Hi Swat,i would like to share some real life story with u which will definitely change your mind. May be some time in chatting i can do that as it needs ur responses also. But please dont think like a feminist. Men do have more desires,i do accept, But not every guy who got those feelings wud be searching for a HOLE. There are so many alternatives things we guys do to deviate ourselves. only we guys know how tough it is :-(
u r a brave girl... Keep posting... i haven't cme across any guys of this sort...even i have had break up... but anyways perspective always differs...
I Qoute: "All I am saying is that civilization crumbles whenever we need it most. In the right situation, we are all capable of the most terrible crimes. To imagine a world where this was not so, where every crisis did not result in new atrocities, where every newspaper is not full of war and violence. Well, this is to imagine a world where human beings cease to be human.".
Another one: "I'd like to share a revelation that I've had during my time here. It came to me when I tried to classify your species and I realized that you're not actually mammals. Every mammal on this planet instinctively develops a natural equilibrium with the surrounding environment but you humans do not. You move to an area and you multiply and multiply until every natural resource is consumed and the only way you can survive is to spread to another area. There is another organism on this planet that follows the same pattern. Do you know what it is? A virus. Human beings are a disease, a cancer of this planet."
Me: U really think that human life is the most noble or important... Are we even equal to a Speck in this universe? Anyways, good effort. Try n listen to Tchaikovsky or Mozart or Howard Shore..it will soothe u. All the best.
Dear Swats....
Well interesting article and a bold one...Good.
Some times its agreable and sometimes its not... According to me Sex is essential for a man but not the only thing he needs from a woman and there are many things beyond S.. and woman is a beautiful thing which one needs to feel proud about.....
Woman as a mother....Woman as a teacher....Woman as a sister....Woman as a soulemate and more....... Thanks to god for giving a beautifull thing called woman.............
*Hemu*
hi swathi,
not exactly...i wish you could replace the word everyman.
don't generalise. i have male friends who are treating me as a friend without any such kind of illness in their minds.
u also talked about indian men...which degrades our country. men for holes are everywhere in the world...not only in India. we do agree there are such men in the world.
but think once...
if i say indian women are sex starved....do you agree??
there are exceptions everywhere. please do think.
Hi maaa....u know i really like the way u expressed ur feelings and experiences...for that matter of fact i recently read one girl profile ...she wrote all MEN are dogs...i felt bad ...a couple of questions I asked.....Do u like ur dad??? is he dog ??? if not is he not MAN.....she got pissed off...started scolding me...i explained her as per ur comments thats what i derived....After seeing her language I thot man i should not come across such statements and I came across u...what would b ur make on this...is ur dad a sex maniac?? can I ask this ques.....mate i like a girl from 5 yrs...ever since i proposed her i didnt see her...I dont know where is she now..but i still love her...i am in a place i c many a bitc*** around but i still like her...dont call me sex maniac...
what??????????????????
For whatever reason, this reminds of my manager saying 'S.. is the most hyped up thing in the world..'
Otherwise, i have no comments :)
hahahahahhaha
mice searching 4 holes??? lol.... dis is hilarious.... excuse me on goin bizzare on such serious issue u discussd here.. but den again u seem 2hv made up ur mind 4 evry man being a @#$% at d end of d day n wants jst SEX... or s.. shud i write :P...
i dunno but smhw i find such ideas funny... sex is as natural as it can get.. b it men women all gota do it.. n if u dnt wan2 u dnt hv2... stupid friend of urs who cries cos her bf broke up 4 she wsnt willing 2 hv s.. wid him.. come on she shud b glad she gt rid f such loser n now can move on in life... feel free 2 call men mice... :P actually dat funny... keeping d serious issues aside dunno y i find d post funny.. hahaha... u go gurl keep posting :P :P
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